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    I know exactly what you mean Teeja!
    Me & DH got married a few years ago now & have together a long time. Everyone else instantly started asking when we were going to have a baby & I was like 'not yet' etc etc. But it was killer because I've always desperately wanted a baby, and every time someone asked it broke my heart a little - we were planning/going through the processes of migrating to Australia (not that those that weren't close to us knew) so we weren't ttc then.
    My mum was always so good about it, but after we'd been in Australia a year she sent me an email one day. It was all very general chit chat, and then she threw the million dollar question in; Had DH and I talked about trying for a family?
    At the time DH was on a FTC at work, so I explained that we didn't want to start ttc until we had some stability there.
    He's now been made full time, but we haven't told them yet. As we know as soon as we do, the pressure will be on. And we don't need that from other people!

    Haha vent over *breath*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Calstar View Post
    I know exactly what you mean Teeja!
    Me & DH got married a few years ago now & have together a long time. Everyone else instantly started asking when we were going to have a baby & I was like 'not yet' etc etc. But it was killer because I've always desperately wanted a baby, and every time someone asked it broke my heart a little - we were planning/going through the processes of migrating to Australia (not that those that weren't close to us knew) so we weren't ttc then.
    My mum was always so good about it, but after we'd been in Australia a year she sent me an email one day. It was all very general chit chat, and then she threw the million dollar question in; Had DH and I talked about trying for a family?
    At the time DH was on a FTC at work, so I explained that we didn't want to start ttc until we had some stability there.
    He's now been made full time, but we haven't told them yet. As we know as soon as we do, the pressure will be on. And we don't need that from other people!

    Haha vent over *breath*
    We've been married for just over 18 months and people started asking at about the 6 month point which was when we had made the decision to start soon but weren't ready to tell people. It was only when things weren't going well that I confided in my close girlfriends. All who have had troubles with TTC.

    I'm hoping I get my BFP soon and I will tell my family as soon as we know because it will be good to have their support if something does go wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Calstar View Post
    AF arrived :-(
    Very light but its red blood, and more than spotting, so defo her!
    On to the next cycle it is! Going to start on the B6 and go BD'ing crazy!!

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    I had people ask the day after our wedding :/ ppl still ask but I'm very vague.

    Due to the miscarriages a few close friends and my parents know but my mum is an amazing support and I couldn't have her not knowing. She used to b a nurse and her knowledge has been a god send.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Calstar View Post
    So ladies, who did you tell that you're ttc?
    Initially the only people we told were my Mum and Dad and DH's Mum. Then when we started having problems and got sick of my sisters, nieces etc asking every time we saw them we told them as well. Then I told a close friend of mine, kind of wish I didn't tell her though (Another long story!). We told them all we were pg when we fell last year, again, because it ended in MC we wish we hadn't. I always thought I'd want people to know so if we had MC they would be our support, but honestly, it hurt so much that DH and I didn't want to have to tell people we'd lost the baby, that was actually harder than if it had just been the two of us that knew and we could grieve together. Initially we only told our parents we needed IVF, but when Mum passed I told my sisters I'd need support.

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    AF arrived today at noon so I guess that's good it explains the bad cramps I have been getting and now we can start trying again. My fs said that cd1 is the day you wake up with your period so I guess it will be cd1 tomorrow so will start clomid on Wednesday cd2

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    No idea what to do my gutt is telling to say today is cd1 everything i read says cd1 would be today but my fs said the morning you wake up with your AF is cd1. I got it at lunch time so only 5 hours after i woke up, was thinking about taking my tablet tomorrow but at about 7pm. They say if you take it at night you sleep through most of the side effects thoughts???

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    Quote Originally Posted by shelby27 View Post
    No idea what to do my gutt is telling to say today is cd1 everything i read says cd1 would be today but my fs said the morning you wake up with your AF is cd1. I got it at lunch time so only 5 hours after i woke up, was thinking about taking my tablet tomorrow but at about 7pm. They say if you take it at night you sleep through most of the side effects thoughts???
    I would always count it as the first day u bleed unless it starts after dinner time. Just my twenty cents worth

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    Yep my fs said the same thing, first day of proper bleed. I took mine at night and kinda helped.. Still woke up groggy and with a headache..

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    Quote Originally Posted by shelby27 View Post
    No idea what to do my gutt is telling to say today is cd1 everything i read says cd1 would be today but my fs said the morning you wake up with your AF is cd1. I got it at lunch time so only 5 hours after i woke up, was thinking about taking my tablet tomorrow but at about 7pm. They say if you take it at night you sleep through most of the side effects thoughts???
    I would count today as CD1 and take the tablet CD2 at night. I've had very minimal side effects both times (50mg and 100mg) and I believe it to be because I take mine at night.

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