I know exactly what you mean Teeja!
Me & DH got married a few years ago now & have together a long time. Everyone else instantly started asking when we were going to have a baby & I was like 'not yet' etc etc. But it was killer because I've always desperately wanted a baby, and every time someone asked it broke my heart a little - we were planning/going through the processes of migrating to Australia (not that those that weren't close to us knew) so we weren't ttc then.
My mum was always so good about it, but after we'd been in Australia a year she sent me an email one day. It was all very general chit chat, and then she threw the million dollar question in; Had DH and I talked about trying for a family?
At the time DH was on a FTC at work, so I explained that we didn't want to start ttc until we had some stability there.
He's now been made full time, but we haven't told them yet. As we know as soon as we do, the pressure will be on. And we don't need that from other people!
Haha vent over *breath*