You have to ask yourself is what are you doing now working? Doesn't seem so so what else could you do to try get your life back on track....
Inpatient care would offer monitoring so you cannot contact this man, daily counseling to address why you have this inappropriate attachment to this man and the time and doctors available to try other medications for your depression in a monitored environment.
Last edited by 3cats1pug; 23-05-2013 at 13:32.
He would be keeping all your texts, where you are contacting him first, building a case that this is you pursuing him, that you are mentally unwell. That he has ceased contact with you and you won't stop calling him.
I also think maybe you could benefit from more intensive support either as an in-patient or appointments several times a week with a psych.
Last edited by delirium; 23-05-2013 at 13:31.
Maybe you are right. If I delete his number, which I can do after my psych photographs the texts tomorrow just incase... Would that be better to try first before an inpatient program.. I would have absolutely no means of contacting him then.. At all.
i know how ridiculous I sound. I know.
Please be assured, my daughter is being cared for, she is happy & I am not being a terrible mother. I am holding myself together for my princess.
I think maybe you need to think of him as an addiction, which is why you can't delete his number. The fear of knowing you won't be able to contact him is greater than your desire to end this situation.
If you are in hospital, there will be people who can help you focus on this addictive behaviour and develop strategies to cope after you break this addiction. I believe hospital will help you.
Also, please don't base your report on what he writes. I am sure you will be able to access the report in time, but he is manipulating you. How do you know the report he shows you will actually be the one he presents? Why would he be trying to help you when in his mind you betrayed him?
I wish I could come to your house and flush that phone down the toilet!!
Get a new phone therefor he doesn't have your number and you don't have his. You don't need to see his report just write the truth in yours and stuff him. Save your marriage as I feel so bad for your dh he sounds like he has been more understanding then most men would ever be its time to give him all your energy and attention plan something for the future like a nice holiday together or something anything that you can both save and look forward to.
I think you are right about more intensive treatment. I have already used my 10 Medicare funded sessions this year, I wonder if I can get more. I can really afford the $140 per week....
I feel sorry for my DH too. He understands how ill I have been & he gets why this has happened... He is a really great guy. Like I said, I don't want this man in my life for any romantic reason, I am not attracted to him, I am addicted to the "feel good" says it felt to have my doctor there whenever I needed, it would be no different male or female.. Please don't judge me for that
I agree you need to delete his number and change yours so he can't contact you. Do not read his report, he will not show you the real one. Write your story without reading his and without any input from him.
EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU FEEL LIKE CONTACTING HIM YOU GET ON BUBHUB AND TALK TO US!!!!
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