Definitely do not text him. Just don't do it. It will do nothing to help you in the long run. It might be hard but you have to stop it. If you keep texting you'll look like the one behind it all, when that's not the case.
Text a friend, or text us on here. All of us are here to support you.
Your husband will come around. Just give him some time to process it all.
As I've said before, you can do it! You CAN get through this.