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    Quote Originally Posted by Myztik View Post
    Do not delete anything and even take screen shots of them all just in case. He is trying to cover his *** by telling you to delete them because he knows he is going to be in a lot of trouble.



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    I know, you are right. I'm angry at myself for listening and deleting the past 6 weeks worth of texts on Friday, there was so much more said. But what I have is still telling...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Undercover001 View Post
    Though the practice manager did ask me "you shouldn't tell your psychologist the name of the doctor, we wouldn't want to get anyone into trouble".
    That is really bad of them. Some serious @rse covering going on there. Did you happen to request your records from the practise? I am just worried that they may amend them to undermine you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myztik View Post
    If anything his actions now should tell you that what has happened is wrong. Someone who isn't guilty does not try and hide what they have done.


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    It does. I know it is wrong, though I thought his intentions were right. I think if I was in a normal frame of mind this would never have happened, I hate myself for becoming so dependent and needy - what is wrong with me!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cheerilee View Post
    Report it to APHRA or the health complaints commission (this is what they are called in QLD) not sure what state you are in.

    They will investigate, in the letter of complaint put copies of sms etc.

    Meeting with the practice manager will not get you closure, it will get them closure as it will reduce the likelihood you will take your complaint higher. They would have rang their Medico-Legal insurance company and got their advice on how to handle the situation. You should do the same thing. Which is why they want the meeting so soon. Take a few days and talk to some professionals like your psych.
    Exactly this^^^. The position he has put you and your health in is unacceptable. I would be contacting AHPRA and letting them take over. They will not take this lightly.

    Please please please do not go to the meeting. They are only thinking of themselves and their position with the law. He deserves to be held accountable for his actions.

    Please don't delete his messages, he is continuing to manipulate you. Speak to your therapist but I think you need to cut all ties with the surgery. That will give you closure, as will reporting him to the authorities.

    You are so brave to have come this far. Fight for yourself and all his other female patients x

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    Sending you strength hun, I hope you get a good nights rest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Undercover001 View Post
    It does. I know it is wrong, though I thought his intentions were right. I think if I was in a normal frame of mind this would never have happened, I hate myself for becoming so dependent and needy - what is wrong with me!!
    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. He used his authority and manipulated you. He knew what he was doing. Please do not blame yourself x

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpecialPatrolGroup View Post
    That is really bad of them. Some serious @rse covering going on there. Did you happen to request your records from the practise? I am just worried that they may amend them to undermine you.
    My gosh I never thought of that - what could they do???

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    Just letting you know you're in my thoughts.
    You went to him for help. He has created more stress and made things worse than before. You are now taking back control and YOU are turning YOUR life around for YOU!! Be proud of what you have achieved and don't doubt yourself!!! You are strong and you are ensuring he doesn't do this or anything worse to anyone else!! How awesome are you!!!!!! Thank you for taking the steps to get rid of this so called doctor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Undercover001 View Post
    It does. I know it is wrong, though I thought his intentions were right. I think if I was in a normal frame of mind this would never have happened, I hate myself for becoming so dependent and needy - what is wrong with me!!
    There is nothing wrong with you!! He preyed on you when you needed help. It makes me so angry to read you blaming yourself, you have done nothing wrong


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    Quote Originally Posted by Undercover001 View Post
    I know, you are right. I'm angry at myself for listening and deleting the past 6 weeks worth of texts on Friday, there was so much more said. But what I have is still telling...
    Can you go to your carrier and ask them to retrieve the texts?

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