Very very quick background. Child now 4. Father bailed upon conception basically. Came back when child 2.5 and has since seen 3 times long periods of time in between physical contact but has had Skype weekly for at least past 12 months. He wants 50/50 when he moves here. Stuff that. My concern is only he is a stranger and inexperienced. What would you propose for long term visitation and working up to it? I must add he bullied me into unsupervised visit the last two times. Urgent, due in court in 3 weeks and still waiting on legal aid application. I want to be ready and reasonable. Thank you!