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    Ally I too felt like this when I had to leave my little girl. It is gut wrenching.

    We decided to bring our baby girls ashes home. I felt such peace when she was finally home with us again. It really helps me.

    I also light a special candle when I am really missing my little girl - it's my sign to her that I am thinking of her and love her.

    I find it hard to know what to say because I don't want to upset you or say anything wrong and I certainly am not trying to hijack your thread I just thought by sharing some things I have done might help you and maybe you could do these things too maybe it might bring you a little bit of peace but maybe not, we are all different and cope differently there's no right or wrong. I am so sorry for your loss. You have loved your little boy so much, you have taken such wonderful care of him and are such a wonderful worthy mum - You haven't left him honey because he is forever in your heart and I am so sure he is with you in spirit right now.
    Take care of yourself xx
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    I'm so sorry Ally. Sending you lot's of .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Whoknows View Post
    Ally I too felt like this when I had to leave my little girl. It is gut wrenching.

    We decided to bring our baby girls ashes home, she is in a beautiful little urn next to my bed. I felt such peace when she was finally home with us again. It really helps me.

    I also light a special candle when I am really missing my little girl - it's my sign to her that I am thinking of her and love her.

    I find it hard to know what to say because I don't want to upset you or say anything wrong and I certainly am not trying to hijack your thread I just thought by sharing some things I have done might help you and maybe you could do these things too maybe it might bring you a little bit of peace but maybe not, we are all different and cope differently there's no right or wrong. I am so sorry for your loss. You have loved your little boy so much, you have taken such wonderful care of him and are such a wonderful worthy mum - You haven't left him honey because he is forever in your heart and I am so sure he is with you in spirit right now.
    Take care of yourself xx
    I have to admit I can't wait to have him home after his funeral I just want to hold his little body and kiss his beautiful face again

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    Ally I wish I had some magic words to help you. Please know I offer you so many hugs.

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    I'm so sorry you're feeling like this. I don't really have any thing to say that will help, but I really hope you feel better soon.

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    Sorry for your loss.

    What you feel must be totally normal, especially now that you have all those silly post pregnancy hormones racing around your body.

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    He doesn't feel gone to me he feels far away and it hurts

    I want to go back and do labour and the hours after over and over again so I can be there for him and be his mum

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    I cannot even imagine how devastated you feel right now. And I'm sorry I don't have any words of wisdom. Just know that you are free to discuss your feelings and thoughts on here and we are listening/reading xxx

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    You are his mum. Nothing will ever change that. Oh I wish there was something I could say to help

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    I'm so sorry ally. I know exactly how you feel. I wanted to steal my girl back after the funeral just to hold n cuddle her n feel like a mum. But you will always be Angus mum and carry him in your heart xxx

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