Has anyone lived on their own (with no partner/ actually just you) and how did you go?
I have never lived on my own. I lived with my parents, then with dp then in a share house. I'm thinking when my lease runs out next Feb that I should find my own place but I'm a scardy cat sook wuss and I'll have a 7ish month old bub. I don't know if I'd cope emotionally with bub and no one else around me. I'm a homebody so am really enjoying sharing a house because I have people I know around with me, but I also hate sharing because only two of my housemates are my super close friends (one being dp the other being his best mate who is like a brother). We have a spare room so there's only one other person in the house but she's a smoker (though you're not allowed to smoke in this house), she acts like she's 18 but she's 28 and the bathrooms are always left disgusting and the only part of the cleaning roster she ever follows is vacuuming downstairs so none of her other specified jobs over the other four weeks are ever done (we have one cleaning job a week to do each). I can put up with it until this lease runs out because I will be back and forth between living at my dads and living here while I adjust to having a baby but if she doesn't move out next year I probably should.
Dp may or may not move out with me. Him and I have a few things to sort out and he's not FOB so if he can't handle bub then he won't stick around. If dp is happy to move out with me then yep I'm super set no problems moving but I'm terrified of living on my own? I'm a bit prone to the blues so if I'm away from people I might fall into that too.
I've forgotten half of what I've said but how did you go living on your own? Am I just being a sook and is it really no biggie?