So i just thought id ask for people's opinions.
One of my friends has been in an on off relationship for about 12mths now. In the last 12 mths they have split up and gotten back together about 7 times if not more. She has 2 kids one has a disability and he has 2 kids also.
Anyway so a few weeks ago she comes to me saying they had split up again because he was blaming her son for things that his children had done and also because when she was at his house there was always these ppl coming to visit but only staying 5-10mins then leaving. When she asked him what was going on he told her it was none of her bussiness and to keep her nose out of it.. so after much arguing etc he ended up telling her he was selling speed.
Now she has gone back to him knowing full well what he is doing and planning on moving in with him. when i said something about it she told me "what was she going to do she cant change him"..
Im worried about her and her kids what can i say to her to make her see sense? I know she is worried she will never find anyone to love her and she will be alone forever but it makes me angry that she would settle for a man that doesnt like her kids and doesnt show her the love and respect she deserves.