It meant you miss your 2nd child's first bday?
I'm going on an all expenses paid week long trip to LA to go to the holloween party at playboy mansion with work and I have worked so hard for this reward and it won't be offered again but I may miss being with ds on his bday.
I'm copping a lot of criticism for wanting to go but dh has missed 3/4 bdays for dd and noone said boo yet a horrible for even considering going
1st bdays in our house are celebrated by a fam trip to zoo or beach or something. No party or anything so we were gonna celebrate the week before.
I just dunno what to do. I realllly want to go I will never get this opportunity again and he is so young he wouldn't remember me being there or not bit everyone is makin me feel so bad!!!