I think that tricking your partner into another child is most likely going to end in divorce/break up
An ex of mine tried to trap me, even if I fell pregnant to him (which ohmygosh so glad I didn't) I would have left him anyway he was a horrible person.
I keep getting accused that I fell pregnant on purpose to trap FOB but... I'm the one who didn't want to stay and he didn't want to either it was just pure accident.
A 'friend' of mine in year 11 and 12 was horrible to her partner and every time he tried to leave she'd tell him she was pregnant but she always seemed to miscarry. I think that's horrible and trapping as well.
Anyways what I'm trying to say it no, no I would not try to 'trap' anyone or force them to impregnate me and I think it's a really poor move on anyone's part to try it. It will never end well (well your relationship wont).
Would i ever do it? No.
Its a bit psycho
No way. Its an awful thing to do and really shows the persons true nature.
I don't think deceit/manipulation have a place in any marriage/partnership.
It's so wrong. And the ramifications of it.. Whoa.
Some people would say, he should put a rubber on and be responsible.. I've heard many conversations to this effect. But contraception is sometimes manipulated.
If I were in his position I would find that unforgivable. It's just disgraceful.
I agree with everyone else. If they do want more and are trying tl do the right thing, it's absolutely wrong to go against their wishes and try to fall pregnant.
I think though Bunny Lover there's a big difference between a couple in a relationship or one night stand where he just refuses to wear a condom then says she trapped him. When the reality is, she didn't and he knew she wasn't on the pill.
I have seen this happen so many times and it is horribly unfair. I have even encountered a person who used fertility drugs for not one but two 'unplanned' pregnancies. It is not a good environment to bring children into and frankly I can only see it ending in disaster every time. To me it makes a mockery of couples like myself & my husband who have struggled with infertility and multiple miscarriages. Our daughter is 100% wanted and planned yet she took years of heartache to get. The words cold & selfish come to mind.
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