Do you not see how unfair it is. Don't get me wrong, if your (or mine/anyone's) partner poked a hole in a condom it would be a massive breach of trust and incredibly deceitful, but you've always got 'back up', so to speak.
What could your partner do if you tricked him and fell pregnant? He couldn't do anything but accept it. I just don't think it's ok in any way, shape or form.
Thanks for answering again and been so honest