Wobbler I'm really sorry to hear that and I'm not suprised that you are upset, you must feel really frustrated!
Sorry to hear about BFN jenjen. Is it really late enough for you to know? I thought the luteal phase was generally 12-14 days for everyone, even if you have a shorter cycle.
AFM I've had a mix of symptoms but trying to ignore them as it could just be from a million other things. We shall see! Counting down.. 8 sleeps til AF is due
Last edited by elswyth; 13-05-2013 at 15:11.
I am incredibly frustrated, we said 17 months ago we were going to start ttc last month as soon as we were married and whats happened a DH who now couldn't give a stuff about the whole thing continues to say he wants a baby like me really soon but then goes and refuses to take part in the whole thing but its acceptable to want to BD the day after O.
Sending positive vibes and hugs your way x
I think those first response tests were faulty its not the first time.whos knows really but im just going with flow
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I can understand your frustration with your partner, as has been suggested above, if you are sure he wants the baby too, then initate BD at O time without explicitly describing the colour of your OPK
I am out for this month. AF arrived in all her glory. I am really relieved this time round though, as saw the endocronologist and my thyroid levels have dropped again, which wasn't expected. The GP had given me the all clear to start TTC again, so I thought all was fine. The endo decribed the brain function problems a baby might develop when they are that low, and I was quite frightened and praying this month wasn't the month. Bit of a rollercoaster, but I am to hold out for two weeks until she confirms my levels are back up.
I might make June testing, but most likely not ..
Hope for your sake I don't, but may see some of you in a July testing thread.
All the best for those still to test in May... I really hope to see some excited posts on here over the next week or so!
Loved Already- Sorry to hear AF arrived. Ah what a stress for you! Hopefully your levels are up in two weeks
Wobbler- I agree with the PPs, don't tell him when you're Oing. Just dtd like a newly married couple and enjoy it, he's probably feeling pressured to perform. DH hates knowing that I'm only instigating sex because I'm O'ing, it feels like a chore for him, so I don't tell him anymore.
Last edited by atomicmama; 13-05-2013 at 18:45.
elswyth - I had strange warm sensations in my lower abdomen one day last week. I think it was 7 or 8dpo. I'm also feeling hot right now and have had some random sharp pains & aching legs (wt??). I have everything crossed that AF doesn't turn up tomorrow. I'm pretty sure I'll test Wednesday morning (13dpo)
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