Hubby and I have been putting off going back to our FS to start the process of IVF because of money. We fell naturally in Sep 12 but unfortunately ended in MC at 6 weeks. The thing is, we rent at the moment and honestly, I don't see us buying any time soon. I'm on an OK wage but hubby is on quite a low wage, which doesn't bother me because he likes his job and that's all that matters to me. Both of us have always believed that money isn't everything. But now, we need it to be everything because we need money to help us make our dream of being parents a reality.
My question is probably not going to come out right because I'm seriously depressed today and really can't think straight.
How did you go with the financial side of IVF? Did you just make it happen (Credit cards/finance) or did you save the money first? How did you go with your finances once you did become pregnant and you had to save for getting things ready for bubs? Do you regret anything financially (Do you wish you'd saved money first for IVF instead of putting it on credit?). We are so desperate to be parents and now that I'm 31 we really just want to make this happen. Both DH and I always thought we'd have a large family, but it's looking more and more like we may have to come to the realisation that we may only be able to have one child.
Sorry for rambling, I'm freaking out massively today