I know it's unimportant. I didnt want to say what it was incase she is on here. It's pretty specific but I'm 100% it can be done the next weekend.
The fact is she said a month ago she would save the date and would come. Now it's just pushed aside.
I know other people won't think ds is number 1. But this is family. I go to my other brothers kids birthdays. Call them and generally care a lot for them. I didnt think its much to ask that ds aunty cares about him? Some of u seem to think so.. I find that strange.. If we weren't talking always had fights yes I would understand her not carting but as I said we are always nice to her.
So it's selfish imo