It's my sons first birthday and we are having a family party on the weekend. Just family.
I invited everyone a month ago. Told them the day and would be for lunch. Now my SIL has something very unimportant to do on that day so is not coming. I'm so so angry. I can't believe she doesn't think ds first birthday is important. First I was angry now I'm really hurt.
I don't want ds knowing her. When he was about 8m we had a family gathering and she just stepped over him. Not even a hello as he crawled around. She is so selfish and always has some excuse to get out of being with our family. We have done nothing but be so nice to her. My family is always welcoming.
Anyway I don't know what to do. By the way she hasn't told me she isn't coming. My brother told my mum. So more disrespect.
I'm getyibg serious about cutting them out. My brother is ok just a bit thoughtless.. Apparently just shrugged it off and he will come still. So I wouldn't want to never see him again. Just her.
I don't want my son to know this type of person..and god forbid she let him down like she has me one day.
What should i do? Just ignore the fact she isn't coming but never invite her to anything again? That's what I'm thinking