Can't take it anymore (so very very long)

[shorty_851]

Im so angry right now. Sorry to put this all on you guys.

You dont have to reply.

I am sittig here at work and have not said a word to anyone this morning. I left work yesterday early as DP forgot his keys and couldn get in (thats not the issue)

Yesterday after noon i was accused of stuffing up the computer system which i had nothing to do with because they wanted someone to blame and as im the only female in the BNE office i was picked to take the blame.

I just couldn believe it. If you have read my other work vents which there are a lot of you would have read that i work for a company that is domianted by males and females are just the scum of the earth to them.

Anyways i have a fairly heavy work load now as i do 4 different jobs while the other 2 males in my office sit and do anothing 1 of them gets cahs in hand.

I dont want to quit until the other girl gets back in April. She ison maternity leave. Otherwise i would have been gone. I just dont want to leave them in the lurch becasue i know i will cope the worst of it just before i go.

Im paid monthly and asked for my holidays to be paid out and i was told that they will only be paying half my holidays because they dont want to pay out the four weeks.

They dont een pay me on time anyways. They know fair well i can't have any holidays because other wise this office will fall to pieces as i do the exports imports accounting sales. What am i talking about i run this place and only get called the receptionist which is far from the truth and they know becasue i was employed as a import seafreight clerk.

Im beyond angry. i can feel my blood boiling everytime one of them open their mouths because i know it is only to ask me how to save something on the computer etc.

IM SICK OF IT SICK OF IT SICK OF IT.

i m so sorry i wont bore you any more even though i could go on forever and ever about it.

I mean both the guys are 70+ i feel like i work in a retirement village. It C$%^.

Back to the point of the vent yesterday when it all happened i stood up and told them exactly what i thought of their company and that they are a bunch of shovernistic (sp?) pugs and that they are lucky im still here. I felt like telling them i quit and i will finish Friday. But didnt

I got to work this mornign only to not being spoken to. So im sitting ignoring them back.

What do i do? Do i just leave them in the lurch

[Jules16]

Maybe you should leave - is it really worth staying? You need to look out for No 1 - being you.

[candice_bree]

You poor thing

I agree with morgan j... Maybe its not the best for ou to be in a stressful work environment!

I hate my job at the moment it has gotten to the point where no one speaks to me... This is because they were annoyed that i fell pregnant and had to leave me job (nearly everyone in my position has left after about 4 months)

Sometimes i just think to myself maybe i am better off leaving!! The only thing that pushes me through my days is the thought of finishing on Dec 22nd!

I hope everything works out for you

[shorty_851]

I just keep thinking to myself that April is only 6 months away but its getting to the point that DP and i fight about it because i end up in tears everynight.

[bekkyboo]

Sweetness - remember your other threads - and i think i said there that you should look for other work - once you find something than give your notice.


Surely a month of hell is better than 6 months.


I know how you feel, i have been in that sort of job before (except mine werent old - they were 2 years older than me, and knew SFA and stuffed everything up and i got the blame)...



If it is hurting your relationship - id be getting out hun! Money isnt the be all and end all!

[*Sparkles*]

Sorry to hear of your situation, I know how it feels to be in a job that you really hate.

I am the sort of person who really hates it when someone is treated like you have been, so what I am about to say may seem quite harsh (sorry)

You have 3 options;
1) You stay angry, say nothing and suffer in silence until April.
2) You write down all of the things that are upsetting you and address them to the managers. Then your fate will be in their hands.
3) You quit and find yourself a better job.

Only you can decide which path to take, but whatever you decide, you need to accept your decision as being final for the time being. If you chose number 1 then you should start talking to the other office staff again and make an effort to defuse the situation. Otherwise this negative atmosphere will continue to stress you indefinitely.

Good luck

[~Chick79~]

6 months is a LONG time to be treated like dirt.....

If this was happening to me I would be asking myself this.... why be considerate of them when they can't do the same for me.....

Honey I would be leaving.....

[shorty_851]

Thank you all for your kind words.

I have just phoned the recruitment agency which is how you have to get a job in this industry and told them that i need out.

Its acctually kind of weird becasue they phoned me yesterday saying that they have 2 posistions that i would be great for and i told them i didn want to find another job.

I think it was a sign what do you reckon

[~Chick79~]

those 2 positions may still be available for you to go forward for!

[~Alicia]

Go for it shorty !!

You definatly need to leave! like the girls have said, 6 months is a long time

You don't deserve to be treated like that. My mother was the 'receptionist' at her last job, and like you, she ran the place and didn't get the recognition.

Do yourself a favour and go for those other jobs!

Good luck babe, let us know how it goes please.