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    Default Can you divide your life into two parts?

    Does anyone else feel like they can divide their life and memories into two distinct parts? Before you lost your baby and after you lost your baby. I feel like everything I look back onto now I classify as 'I was still pregnant with Clem then' or 'that happened after I lost Clem.'

    Today I decided to go shopping, pretty much the first time I've felt like shopping or browsing in almost four months. I walked into Chadstone and walked into GAP and as I did I realized I hadn't been there since I was about 9 weeks pregnant and was looking at what neutral pieces were in BabyGap. I feel like that is constantly my life right now, little moments like that where I can classify everything by when I was pregnant or after I loss her.

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    I feel exactly the same... There's the time I was pregnant... And now its all referring to after Skye came and went.

    I sometimes wonder if life will forever be like this....


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    I know what you mean, sometimes when I'm out I feel like I should have a huge sign on my head saying 'my baby was stillborn'. I feel like it defines me like I'm not the same person anymore.


 

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