More than one would be very fun and crazy lol. I know my clinic is a bit strict on multiple eggs and if there is too many they will cancel the cycle. If there is 2 then they discuss it with you as too what you would like to do. I would proceed though.
It's hard not to stress about things like that. I have heard lot's of good things about those gels and lubricants so I'm sure it helped them along :-) What a horrible doctor. I hate when they make you feel silly. I took DS to a doctor for something last year and she made me feel like I was stupid and wasted her time taking him to the Dr. My normal GP is really hard to get into and this other one was my back up but I haven't been back to her since.
I'm feeling really good. I'm hoping to be lucky enough to fall pregnant first time but I'm like you and think that everything happens for a reason. I'm just staying positive in the mean time :-)