I lost my LO in September last year after trying from May the same year. My due date is fast approaching n I have had no luck in be able to conceive again.
I don't really know why I'm posting other then maybe just seeing if anyone else's other half is the same as mine n to try n understand without judgement.
We have never spoken about the loss, my DP was really good when I went in to have my D&C but after a while he just got mad at me (it felt) that I was sad so I stopped telling him I was n just never spoke about it.
This morning I'm at breaking point following 2 birth announcements-one was due the day before me. Before my DP left I was irritated n he asked what was wrong but I didn't bother answering so he left. After a while I sent him a txt to say I was sorry about being horrid n explained about the births n said this is my last cycle trying coz I can't do this anymore, it makes me unhappy n angry n that I was sorry because basically-if we don't fall preg on this last cycle, it's over for me. Anyway ive been crying ever since n I got heaps of missed calls so I eventually answer the phone to him n he says what r u doin n I said I'm crying in the room n he sounded really annoyed n said its no reason not to answer me n got me to help him fill in a form. Then in a gruff voice says we'll talk about it later. Which we never do.
How has ur partner been after a loss? N if they haven't been supportive, have u done anything to change that??
Sorry for the novel n thanks if you have gotten this far x