Just wondering if you have court orders do you abide by them?
Or do you go with an arrangement that suits both of you even though there are court orders in place?
I ask because my ex wants to cut down his days of phone contact that are listed in the court orders. He also wants to change the swap over point, which is stipulated in the orders by address.
He has been forgetting (or just not ringing) phone contact for the last month or so. He just doesn't call when he is meant to.
Swap over and phone contact suit us where they are just fine. The kids get a little upset when he misses his phone calls as they are older and know what day it is and when he calls.
I have been with my DP for 5 years now and my ex has just recently re-partnered to someone who also has two children (from what I can gather from what the girls have said).
Just after what other people do and whether or not I just stick to what the court orders say.