I'm searching for a good overall parenting book for children aged 3 years through to late primary school. Does anyone have any suggestions? A couple of books I have come across on the web are 'Every Parent' by Matthew Sanders and 'Heart to Heart Parenting' by Robin Gillies - anyone heard of these? Any good? I feel like I'm being challenged by my children, aged almost 4 and 8, all the time and it's wearing me down. So I'm looking for a book that'll give me some overall advice to refresh of my parenting skills if that makes sense, even if i's just to know that I'm on the right track and doing the right thing.