Sorry if I am posting in the wrong spot, I don't know what else to do.
My father has just told me a family secret involving him that would have stayed secret had a drunk uncle not blabbed to my brother. I am still processing this news (possibly stay tuned for THAT post), but the real issue is that my father made me promise not to tell my husband.
I am definitely a trustworthy person, and secrets stay with me, but with this secret (won't harm anyone), I know how hubby will react if I tell him. His view of my father is already quite negative bc of Dad's life/relationship choices since my mothers' death in 2000. But I feel sick when i think of keeping this news from him (again, it's nothing that affects him personally in any way).
Any advice, ladies? And my loyalties lie equally btw the two.