New to the forums here!I have just found out I'm pregnant with 3rd child (unplanned). Absolutely terrible timing, financially speaking, but have accepted we've been thrown this curve ball for a reason. Struggling to find any joy in my pregnancy, and fraught with worry about losing my casual job which we rely on to pay the mortgage. (I work with nasty chemicals and products, of which I can find no documentation relating to pregnancy complications, since I work in a relatively new, obscure, male dominated field).My two children will be 8 and 10 when bub comes along. The younger one is happy she will become a big sister, while the older one shares my dislike for babies.
Feeling rather sorry for myself at the moment, and don't particularly want to share our news with family and friends.
Hubby is more delighted than me, at the prospect of possibly getting a son. But he has become almost impossible to live with as he stresses over our finances.