At their sisters place when you are about a month out from your due date and expected you to catch a train for about 3 and a half hours for some really lame excuses and you were also a uni student who has end of semester exams happening around the same time, would you just shut up and go along with it or would you say something? And don't just say that you wouldn't have a baby shower anyway, that's not helpful. -___-
Some reasons that were given are valid but the only one that can't be easily worked around is my gran traveling four hours by car and then back in the one day (she's gotten quite frail )
It's my mother who's organizing this. I want friends from where I live to come, as well as cousins from my dad's side to come (my parents had a messy split when I was a young teenager) and when I mentioned this she said that I should just have a second baby shower with them. Well I don't want that, I want everyone to come together with me.
Eugh I don't know what to do/say.
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