I have a 3 year old and have been working 2 days a week. In a couple of weeks I will be starting work full time (devastated) and I just want some pointers on how to make things work. How do you stay on top of everything, feed your family in a timely fashion after a full day of work, still have a relationship with your spouse, is there any time left for you? Our current arrangement has been that DH is working, I am taking care of the homefront, but naturally as the balance is shifting and we will both be working full time there will be a more even distribution of labour at home....except cooking isn't his strong suit.
I am not above paying someone to come and do some cleaning but that may be a month or so after I start because I have some bills to catch up on from our current position on struggle street.