I am hoping for some advice. DH and I have just been told we will need a surrogate to have a child. After 6 years and many many many IVF attempts this seems a little scary. We have unexplained infertility. Whilst I have always had other options such as surrogacy and adoption in the back of my mind, DH seems blindsided by this.
My questions are...
Where do we start?
How do we ask somebody and who would make a good surrogate?
How can i help DH deal with this info? Do I need to give him time to process it before I start asking people?
Did you feel jealous of the surrogate being able to carry and you not?
Did it work for you?
How much did it cost?
How many transfers did it take?