This thread is kind of in between fertility issues a surprise pregnancy. So I am not wanting to offend anyone at all. But I need to talk to someone about this and its a bit early for my family to know.
We have male fertility issue - so was told only 5% chance of concieving naturally (very similar to hubby having the snip!) and it took us nearly 4 years, so much $$$, emotional rollercoasters etc via ICSI to get our little man.
DS2 is nearly 15 months and I finished bf in dec 2012. We had already had an appointment with our fertility spec. to use our frosties around august this year and start the whole ttc battle. But I know my cycles down pat as it becomes ingrained after ttc for so long so I had a feeling... I wonder???? Got to day 40 and thought ok going to check and
My dh is over the moon as he's little swimmers made it I was nearly having a breakdown - I am in shock!!! plus I am worried as I had a really big drinking night 3 weeks ago I was on diet pills in January (to lose ivf weight before ttc again) I havnt been on folic acid!! I drink a lot of coffee!!
Plus I have just returned back to work 4 weeks ago from maternity leave, so just starting to get some money back, catch up on bills, getting ready to pay off the credit cards to start icsi. Ive lost 8 kgs, was planning on losing another 15kgs, on a health kick etc etc.
and im nearly 6 wks pregnant im excited, but really worried as it was sooo controlled last time and finally when we got DS2, kind of felt like we struggled and we deserved this!!. This just seems "too easy" if u know what I mean??? Has anyone been in my situation????