Sonja - hope you are feeling better and getting slightly organised amongst your chaos!
Kismet great job with Evie and TT.
We are still TT here. It is proving an uphill battle of wills. No poos in toilet yet. Still not sure if he is scared if toilet, but I do know there is an element of control and stubbornness there. With wee, this kid can hang on forever.
Whenever we ask him to go to the loo he point blank refuses. Now we ignore it if he starts doing his wee jiggle and he just goes on his own or asks us to come with him. After his morning wee, he tends to wait until lunchtime, and then maybe around dinner time. I swear, he only wees about 3 or 4 times a day.
He also mucks about and does his business at the loo then just stands there waiting for me to pull his pants up. I just walk out now and tell him to flush and wash jus hands when he is ready. It has really defused his attitude to us.
Just wish we could get a handle on the poo.