I understand what you are saying, however, what makes anyone think they can accurately judge what someones financial position is.
Anyway, I will just have to agree to disagree I think. I don't care if someone is rich as rich and only gives me $20. I wouldn't invite people to a wedding expecting gifts regardless of their personal financial situation. It's none of my business.....and I was taught to be greatful for everything in life, be it $20 or $2000.
We are obviously just different people with different thoughts on what is important