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    Yay to wine time!

    I don't think you're the bad person, it's her behaviour which is in question. It's bull$hit that you're having to feel like this - tbh this is exactly what this kind of bullying does to someone.

    Reclaim your power and be assertive with her next week. Imagine if it were your child in your position - what would you want them to do? How would you want them to stand up for themself?

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyla View Post
    Reclaim your power and be assertive with her next week. Imagine if it were your child in your position - what would you want them to do? How would you want them to stand up for themself?
    Babyla this is the best possible thing you could have said to me!

    Bottoms up! X

    Will forget until Monday

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    Cheers to the weekend MTB! I'm having a scotch.

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    Hey MTB (love your user name btw....lol it's the best show ever)

    I have had similar things happen to me which are very subtle, designed to make you feel uneasy and off centre. The comment you made that stood out to me was where you said in a few posts that she is a nice person.

    These kinds of people usually are REALLY nice. That's why it hurts when they slip in little barbs like leaving you out of coffee or snapping back at you. I have a similar relationship with someone at my work..who is nice and often supportive to me as well. But every month or so there'll be an odd nasty comment or veiled concern for my career which is really looking for gossip about me or others and I'm all unsure and confused again. Then they're back to super nice again...

    Exhausting.

    I hope you can get the resolution you deserve.


    ~~you don't get to choose your consequences - only your actions~~

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    Oh and Cheers indeed I also am forgetting stuff for the weekend xo


    ~~you don't get to choose your consequences - only your actions~~

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    Quote Originally Posted by shelle65 View Post
    Cheers to the weekend MTB! I'm having a scotch.
    Farken love that emoticon - where did you get it??? Want to steal it and use it!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by vue View Post
    Hey MTB (love your user name btw....lol it's the best show ever)~
    You're the first person who has said that! You're my third-favourite person in the world right now !!

    Thanks for the other advice also - it's interesting.

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    Under the emoticons on your reply screen it says [More]. Click on that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeetTheBluths View Post
    You're the first person who has said that! You're my third-favourite person in the world right now !!

    Thanks for the other advice also - it's interesting.
    Am I your second???

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    Quote Originally Posted by shelle65 View Post
    Am I your second???
    Why yes, yes you are :O

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