When it was just me & DS I thought how am I going to love DD (pregnant with her at the time) as much as I love DS, I even said to DP a couple of times that I was worried I wouldnt love her. Now DD is here (6months) it's totally the opposite. I feel I love DD more, maybe it's because she is such a easy baby sleeps thru the night barely crys & no matter how she feels she always laughs or has a smile on her face & I think that's what melts my heart and makes me love her more, but deep down inside I love them both the same & know that if anything ever happened to them or one of them I would die because they are my kids & I love them so much. When DD is asleep which is always lol. I do things with DS to show him I love him and to show him I'm still his mum, because I know he would be affected by a new baby sister taking mummies time away So your not alone.