"For me breast feeding was the only option, it is/ was the only choice". I think it is these kinds of statements that makes people upset. Sometimes there is no choice but to formula feed, and if you really don't want to do it, and then you hear things like that, Well, it just kind of hurt to be honest. Not having a go at you at all - just trying to explain ( quiet badly) how it feels when you think you are going to breast feed easily and the you can't. It is kind of like when you hear people say " under no circumstances will I ever have a c!section" , when we all know that sometimes they are needed and sometimes no matter how much someone doesn't want one, they have to have one any way.
Not making much sense, sorry. So tired!