Just wondering, did you tell the in-laws if you had fertility issues and how did they take it?
We have only told my family at this point in time because they have always been supportive to us and never caused any drama in our life.
The ILs are a different story. We are not sure about telling them (yet) for fear they might add more pressure, and I will be even less good enough for their son. (if you dont have children in this family you are somehow not considered important enough to stay in touch even). I have struggled many years for their acceptance. They are overbearing an opinionated enough as it is but part of me makes me feel really bad that we are not telling - I'm pretty sure the ILs have an inkling that we have been TTC since we have been married for 2 years. I just don't know whether DH and I should tell them because they have made everything else in our life such a big mess (our wedding plans/day, us moving etc, in the past I have heard BIL tell DH they did not care about me at all on the phone, and if we really need help we always get the cold shoulder despite the fact ILs are our only family nearby). Especially becuase the infertility issue is with me, not DH (I already feel guilty enough for DH I cant fall pregnant).
DH pretty much doesnt want them to know but my conscience is nagging. But the thing is that I know they will make it so much worse if we do tell them.
Did you tell your ILs and did it add more pressure? In our situation do you think we should or better not?