Hi everyone im new here and i have a serious question as im in a bit of a situation.
OK let me begin im on SPP and work part time and live with my best friend who is a single dad also (centrelink know) we have been close friends since we were younger and he fought really hard to get custody of his daughter , and with the price to live in sydney neither of us could get our own place (renting) so we decided to move in together, he is a very comminted father and dosnt go out or chat up girls or anything he has been very heartbroken and dosnt want it happening again, we both also study and he trying really hard to look for a job
EDIT he is also on single parenting payment
But around xmas time we were having a few drinks as we were going to our familys house for a few days, And things got a bit out of hand i admit and we had a one night stand ( please dont judge me iv never dont it before) i was diagnosed with entrimisioisis a few years ago and was told id find it difficult to fall pregnant , however that one time and i have fallen pregnant.
I dont know what to do i cant have an abortion because his family found out and they will disown him and i cant do it to a baby knowing i might find it hard to fall pregnant as i do want more kids when i find the right person, the amount if stress it has out on me has caused me to be hospitalised 3 times in just under 10 weeks , which a eptopic pregnany was ruled out due to my pain. also the stress on him gives him constant chest painas he does not have a very strong heart which he has to be checked up for.
i dunno what to do or say we both dont want to be together and neither of us will survive on our own we might not have partners but out friendship is really strong and we are there for eachother in everything.
so my question is what do i tell centrelink will we both be charged or lose our payments his daughter is in primary school year 1 and my son is 3 years old we didnt think this would happen.
please can anyone help do we talk to a social worker at centrelink.
please dont judge me.
thank you for your time.