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    Quote Originally Posted by salamat View Post
    Is your bub going through a "wonder week"?
    explain to me what this is please? besides my deffinition of it being 2 words to describe "i dont know what the feck is wrong with your baby, im as clueless as you so i will use this as a general answer to cover all bases."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Annabella View Post
    Is it hot where you are? Its been 30-35 degrees here the last few days, maybe he's really thirsty, or just unsettled coz its hot? It is pretty unusual for a seven week old to be sleeping 11 hours straight so, as much as you hate hearing it, and I KNOW how difficult it is, his behaviour is probably pretty 'normal'.

    I know that doesn't make it any easier to cope with though.

    My only advice would be that when he wakes up, actually sit up and feed him, when he falls asleep a minute into the feed, keep waking him up so he has a REALLY good feed, and hopefully it'll help him sleep a bit longer.

    Hope things get better
    you know, i didnt even think that it could be the heat. we havent had a day below 30 for 2 weeks and yesterday and today is 35. i guess they drink more to quench their thirst in the heat just like we do. geez im dumb.

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    Default 7 week old wont sleep constant feeding all of a sudden.

    Um, no need to be rude.

    A wonder week is a developmental milestone of cognitive, emotional and social learnings your baby might be going through.

    It can sometimes explain unsettled behaviour. You can download an app that explains it all, and what you can expect.

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    Default 7 week old wont sleep constant feeding all of a sudden.

    Actually, wonder weeks have their foundation in 35 years of research. I do agree that sometimes 'it's a wonder week' can be a convenient explanation for behaviour that is hard to understand, but, with my son at least, the correlation between his behaviour and the wonder weeks is absolutely spot on, including the new skills that he has developed when the WW finishes.

    I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss wonder weeks - at the very least I find it can make tricky behaviour more bearable when you can refer to some sort of predictable time frame. In the book they describe that for a baby, the changes they undergo during a wonder week are so unsettling, it's like being thrown around on a ship in a stormy sea, and so they cling to their parents to keep them stable. When I read that I felt I had a little more patience (most of the time).

    In your case, it sounds like the 6 week growth spurt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsharvey View Post
    Actually, wonder weeks have their foundation in 35 years of research. I do agree that sometimes 'it's a wonder week' can be a convenient explanation for behaviour that is hard to understand, but, with my son at least, the correlation between his behaviour and the wonder weeks is absolutely spot on, including the new skills that he has developed when the WW finishes.

    I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss wonder weeks - at the very least I find it can make tricky behaviour more bearable when you can refer to some sort of predictable time frame. In the book they describe that for a baby, the changes they undergo during a wonder week are so unsettling, it's like being thrown around on a ship in a stormy sea, and so they cling to their parents to keep them stable. When I read that I felt I had a little more patience (most of the time).

    In your case, it sounds like the 6 week growth spurt.
    Thank you! I am the same. I grabbed the Wonder Week app as well as the book and found that it was very helpful in understanding what my baby might be learning and how to support that learning, and also aid in forecasting unsettled periods.

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    fair point about the wonder weeks, sorry if i came aross rude when you're only trying to offer advice and i know being sleep deprived and a bit short on patience these days insnt much of an excuse.
    He's very clingy - absolutely screams when i put him down for a sleep in his basenette, so to make it a bit easier on myself im just comfort feeding him (wrapped) to sleep for now then putting him back in his bed. (hoping it doesnt form a habbit?!) He'll sleep 20-30mins and there is just no point in getting him back to sleep after that so i'll feed, pump, settle, sleep cycle all over again.
    dd is having her nap now so when he wakes i'll bring him to bed with me and feed him laying down so i can get a rest in.
    The constant feeding doesnt seem to fit in with that wonder week description - this is what's exhausting me the most about it all.
    munching on lactation cookies as i have no desire to even think about food today. just crave an hr of un-disturbed sleep and i think i'll be ok.

    oh look at that, a whole 15mins and he's awake. off i go again.

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    I wouldn't usually think of the weather either but my SIL was saying yesterday her baby has been really unsettled since its been so hot.

    I really really feel for you, its so hard when you're not getting any sleep, especially when you have the guilt of neglecting the other kids. Go easy on yourself, your DD will be fine watching dvds and munching on snacks til you can get to her. I also used to read to my DD while I was feeding so she got a little bit of attention lol!

    Also, I remember my very easy baby had a few really unsettled days, and I was rocking, feeding, everything, trying to get him to stop crying. Eventually just gave up, put him on the bed and walked out to have a breather.... and 5 mins later he was asleep, and had a good sleep. I think he just needed me to leave him the f alone hahahaha! So if all else fails and you feel like you're going crazy- put him down, go and have a full cup of tea where you can't hear him, get yourself together, then go back in and face the music

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    And if you are feeding non-stop that should help your supply, I personally wouldn't bother pumping coz its so much work and feeding is better at increasing supply anyway, keep going on the lactation cookies, lots and lots of water (dehydration can cause a bit of a drop in supply too), maybe porridge for breaky and see how that goes for a couple of days maybe just to give yourself a bit of a break. But thats just me coz I hate expressing with a passion!

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    i also hate expressing and i usually dont need to/cant. but i found it helps thru growth spurts. the first day i wont get a drop but if i keep at it for the following day or 2 i can get 20-30mls after a feed and its great to have that reserve for when im stuffed. like now. but he wont take bottle from me

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    Default 7 week old wont sleep constant feeding all of a sudden.

    You may be mis interpreting his sleep signs as hunger...? They will get jerky, lose eye contact, grizzly etc...?

    I know there is a lot of controversy about controlled/comfort crying (and I wouldn't recommend it for such a little bub) but like a pp said, letting bub cry for 5 mins might be just what he needs to get some energy out and himself off to sleep. Good luck!


 

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