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    Default Fertility issues = Relationship drama.

    I thank everyone for their advice and opinions. I'm a little taken aback with all the marriage talk. In my opinion, at 24, asking for the major life changing decision of having a child with me is more than enough let alone pressuring him to marry me. For some to elude that because we aren't engaged or married yet means that he is not committed to me is crazy.
    If my concern was him not proposing I'd be on another site.

    I don't need to second guess his commitment to me. It's not about that. It's about his readiness for children and my time frame

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    Default Re: Fertility issues = Relationship drama.

    Quote Originally Posted by delirium View Post

    ...He admitted then that he had never wanted kids but told her he did so she didn't leave. She ended up single, childless, and terrified of never having kids.
    This is what I was thinking.

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    Default Fertility issues = Relationship drama.

    Only one poster here has really touched on marriage, and only in the context of the point she was trying to make. I would focus more on the other responses you've received.

    ETA sorry I just realised that may sound harsh. I'm operating on minimal sleep.
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