thanks ladies - it is very sad! I skyped with him this morning, and he looked utterly exhausted.
Beanie - CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Veritas - I think you have to wait one full cycle before you can do FET (same as if you went for another ICSI). Our private health covered the hospital fees, and the anaethetist did gap cover so we didn't see any bills from him either. Is there any way you can check out other clinics? We're at Monash Clayton. We were planning to do ICSI again this month, but are now holding out for April. Although as I say that, 2 emergency flights to the UK may mean we have to hold off and save up again... ugh!