my dd still has 2 to 3 BIG night feeds....i really want to cut this down to one at most. I find she often isn't hungry til lunchtime cos she feeds at night....she is fed to sleep. At 10 months how many night feeds is considered reasonable? And in order to break the fed to sleep habit will it be DH who will need to settle her...? He has tried but she just cries and i always give in partly cos i know she will fall asleep and partly cos i worry she will wake ds. Any tips? I was hoping she would have dropped back to one feed by herself but its not happening.