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    Fortitude I'm very sorry to hear your news. It's such a hard road we take and so many hurdles along the way. X

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    Fort- my first cycle with donor eggs was also positive but no heartbeat at 7 weeks so understand where you are at. I had to wait 3 months to cycle again even though wanted to go straight away. Hope your next transfer is as successful as mine hon

    Sunny- another tip I forgot was to get DH to leave sample on day you have lining scan. That way if god forbid you have to do another fresh cycle you have the option to go yourself for shorter time cutting cost. They are quite strict with what they freeze

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fortitude View Post
    Being me... I am not one to stop moving forward even with an aching heart.
    Already my FS has been through my notes and has ordered a massive new set of blood testing for both myself and hubby.
    I just love my FS, she's going to stay with us even though we're moving the frosties back home. (She used to be here- but moved to Brisbane over Christmas, I had the last cycle up in Brissy with my FS and donor). She's going to play a sort of 'consulting Dr' role with my current specialist here- for which I am very grateful.

    Negative results are hard enough, but positive results... actual pregnancy that then fails is a whole new emotional challenge.We sure have to have the strength of a lioness to keep putting our hearts on the line.

    I don't think people who have not faced infertility can ever understand the sheer angst and stress it puts you through emotionally, financially and physically. Wishing you all buckets of strength as you face your own journey.

    Fort

    So true ... Fort... And so sorry to hear your news!

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    Still at recovery stage! But already worried with my wounded ankle. Work place change my roaster to weekend and via myself with not professional helper with me... I am stress again... How to conceive naturally? When always stress coming along. Sign

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    Unfortunately there is always going to be life stresses, Sagitwist, - The trick is to manage it. Yoga, breathing exercises, massage, running, laughing, etc etc. Sounds straight forward but they are the first things we all forget, or don't make time to do. Best of luck. I'm sure you'll find a stress reliever soon. Hope your ankle recovers quickly.

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    Hi Fort

    Thank you for summing it up so beautifully. I achieved a pregnancy with my day 5 blastocyst and I miscarried and was told by my doctor that even though I had great results they were due to the added hgh and not my body (which along with other ivf related stuff has left a $7,000 dent in my credit card). He doesnt have the heart in it and he encouraged me to look at DE. It is still something I am coming to terms with but Im 44 in a month or so, so it's time.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fortitude View Post
    Being me... I am not one to stop moving forward even with an aching heart.
    Already my FS has been through my notes and has ordered a massive new set of blood testing for both myself and hubby.
    I just love my FS, she's going to stay with us even though we're moving the frosties back home. (She used to be here- but moved to Brisbane over Christmas, I had the last cycle up in Brissy with my FS and donor). She's going to play a sort of 'consulting Dr' role with my current specialist here- for which I am very grateful.

    Negative results are hard enough, but positive results... actual pregnancy that then fails is a whole new emotional challenge.We sure have to have the strength of a lioness to keep putting our hearts on the line.

    I don't think people who have not faced infertility can ever understand the sheer angst and stress it puts you through emotionally, financially and physically. Wishing you all buckets of strength as you face your own journey.

    Fort

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    Fortitude,

    I feel your pain and heartache, this is what happened to us last year. Hugs to the both of you xxx


    Quote Originally Posted by Fortitude View Post
    Being me... I am not one to stop moving forward even with an aching heart.
    Already my FS has been through my notes and has ordered a massive new set of blood testing for both myself and hubby.
    I just love my FS, she's going to stay with us even though we're moving the frosties back home. (She used to be here- but moved to Brisbane over Christmas, I had the last cycle up in Brissy with my FS and donor). She's going to play a sort of 'consulting Dr' role with my current specialist here- for which I am very grateful.

    Negative results are hard enough, but positive results... actual pregnancy that then fails is a whole new emotional challenge.We sure have to have the strength of a lioness to keep putting our hearts on the line.

    I don't think people who have not faced infertility can ever understand the sheer angst and stress it puts you through emotionally, financially and physically. Wishing you all buckets of strength as you face your own journey.

    Fort

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    Hello everyone.

    Quick update, appointment with the shrink this thursday arvo to chat about how "we are feeling" with the thought of my DP using my eggs and the legalities that go with all of that. Looking forward to getting this part over and done with....

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    Hi Fingerscrossed I dont know if this relates to your situation - DH and I had to have an appointment with a shrink to get approval to do our last ivf in May (its a legal requirement in Victoria). Our shrink gave us spoke about the emotional side of ivf and we had to keep a straight face as we knew way more than her and waaaaay more than we wanted to know about this topic!

    On the flip side I think Therapy is a great thing for IVF. I am thinking of seeing one just to be able to talk through what to do next - not so the therapist can tell me what to do but so I can clarify things in my own mind.

    Good luck!

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    Fingers, good luck for you and DP this Thursday.

    Sagi, hope you can find something that helps with stress. Mrs P suggested yoga, I find that it does help, though I am really bad at some parts, especially the "lie still and be quiet" part

    Hope everyone has had a great start to the week!

    AFM - had transfer yesterday, the blastie was slow to thaw but came good in the end. So now just to wait...
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