I have a friend who I have known for 11 years. Her ds and my ds are 3 weeks apart and are 11. Recently I have noticed that when we go over ( maybe 6 months I have noticed it) that their patenting style is starting to differ from mine. They let him yell at the top of his voice, a lot. Like a lot. Even whilst outside in the pool and backyard. They seem unperturbed by this. He also swears a lot and calls people ie other kids not present names a lot. There are no consequences for this. The thing that annoys me the most is that he brings up sexual terms a lot. He seems to be more knowledgeable about this than my son, he has asked him, in front of us, do you know what x is? Like wtf?
I am becoming more and more uncomfortable about being around them. He just makes me feel uncomfortable , his behavior is not acceptable and he gets no boundaries. If I say something she will not be happy, I know her.
I just feel as though he is a bad influence on my son.
What do you think?