I agree, it is too heart breaking to tell people ur pregnant & then have to explain that u've had a m/c. I could barely talk to anyone about our first m/c without bursting into tears. Over a year later & it still hurts as I'm no closer to having a bub. I also found all the questions tough, why did it happen, r u having a d & c etc. Oh & the comments people say (which also come from close family & friends), at least u know u can get pregnant & don't get upset over it, at least u weren't further along etc. It's heartbreaking & emotionally draining (for me & DH). I've had 2 so far & have been ttc since 2010, so if we have another m/c I won't be telling too many people irl, maybe only a close friend who had been through it too & understands how it feels.