We told a few close people before 12 weeks and as good news goes it spread like wildfire.
We are 12 weeks Sunday, with scan next friday so we are not out of the woods yet, however we saw heart beat at 6 weeks and have had no bleeds. Unless we have had a missed miscarriage or there is something medically wrong it appears we are ok.
However when people talk to me, I've told them we are still early and it's not 100% yet and there's still a risk blah blah blah.
In my talks i am amazed at the number of people who have had miscarriages, yet it's not spoken of until after your pregnant and expressing your concerns to others.
I also had a major freak out when what appears to be a lot of women in my due group unfortunately lost their bubs.
After research ive realized its very common and i wished that women shared their stories more. The way I'm looking at it is that if this little one isn't viable then I hope that ( because a lot of people know) that I may help break stigma and isolation.
I'm saddened by losses here on bub hub but I thank you for sharing your stories but I do wish more would express irl.