I'm not going to judge her. I don't know what it's like to be addicted to cigarettes, but I do know what it's like to make bad decisions.
She seems genuinely remorseful to me, I hope she can forgive herself and move on.
bpac - I don't judge you either sweetie. I heard someone say once that you should never 'quit quitting' because apparently sometimes it takes quite a few attempts before you do it. I wish you success and I hope you get to have your 2nd baby soon!