Each to their own IMO.
But I don't like it when people finding it hard to fall pregnant start having a go at women who can and don't follow every rule, guideline etc.
I had been TTC for 3 yrs before we fell pregnant with DD. In that time my SIL was pregnant twice and already had 2 children. She chooses to smoke and drink but always cuts down through all her pregnancies. Now I never looked at her thinking wow look at you smoking and drinking while pregnant and I can't get pregnant how selfish. Who am I to put that on her or anyone else? It's not her fault we struggled to fall pregnant.
It's a stupid argument. That is the point I'm making.
Mind your own.
Edit: I should also add my 4 nephews are gorgeous healthy boys with no problems.