To the 'surprise' baby haters in PPs, mine did surprise me. I'm sorry if that's offensive, but I couldn't help the way I felt - it's a feeling, and feeling aren't right or wrong. They're feelings and they can't always be controlled.
There's no way we can know the specifics of Chrissies situation. I'm simply going on Chrissies past history of poor decisions and guesstimating she is not in the 1% of women who were taking robust measures and fell pregnant anyway.
I don't understand how the fact this baby is a surprise means anything anyway? who cares? The fact she is so distraught tells me she does love the baby. I was a surprise and my parents love me and don't regret it a second. I don't see how that plays any bearing. People that plan their kids still smoke and drink while pg, occasionally yell at their kids. Have relationship break downs which may effect the kids. be broke and struggle to provide the essentials.
Just wondering whether a substantial number of the statements made in here today would be made if Chrissie got behind a wheel drunk and ran over a child.
mama and her little bearxxx (07-02-2013)
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