I have been thinking about this . I love my kids so so much, but I wonder how they feel about me. I kiss and hug them daily but don't really play that much as I feel they have each other .... But I wonder if they see the sad me , the worried me, the don have time me and think that's who I really am. What makes a good mum ? My mum told me off 24/7 and I feel we are still not close as adults. I guess I'm just wondering is love enough or is there something special about some mums ?