I'm sorry your going through this, I hope tomorrow brings you more answers. I didn't think the sonographers were supposed to tell you that sort of news though, seems a rough way to have to handle it.
In the end the scan guy was I guess in his eyes, doing his best giving us a heads up. He had done all the scans on me and DF when we were dealing with infertility, he knew the road we took to get to falling pregnant.
I don't know what would of been worse, what happend or going through the weekend estatic, buying pink clothes and sharing our news that baby was a girl, to have it shattered today.
Either way it's awful and I wish that I could of had a normal pregnancy, but I need to think about others that have it worse than me.
I am trying my best to be strong for DF, it is his first child and he is completely heartbroken as is his parents who have been so happy to get a grandchild.
I am feeling her kicks for the first time tonight, so I hope she is trying to let me know that's she will be okay.
I'm so sorry to hear you have received this news I hope you receive some better news, all the best xx
Oh gosh I hope you don't have to terminate but it's good you're asking questions and finding out all you can.
Very best of luck and I hope bub grows and lives a very healthy life ((hugs))
Hugs hun. I hope you receive good news.
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