Some women know nothing about s.ex or their own bodies and some have been married for years. (yes they are sexual active but what they think it's supposed to be like is just scary)
Hokey Pokey (29-01-2013)
I remember being in high school and all the urban legends you hear. The girl that got pregnant from a public pool, or having a bath after her brother? Obviously not true but when you are a bit naive anything sounds possible.
Please go to the doctors for a chat Op. I'm 100% that you're not pregnant
I'm a pretty new poster but just have to say this.
The op could just be having a laugh, or she could really need some help and advice.
I think its wonderful that all these lovely women are taking time out of their day to offer advice and support, and point the op in the right direction to educate herself.
This level of support, even if there is a chance its not really needed, is what has encouraged me to stop lurking and start posting.
Op, you have recieved some great advice. The only thing that I will repeat to you is to educate yourself before you take your physical relationship any further.
Alright firstly I am not having you guys on, I come from a small town, and two EXTREMELY strict christian parents, they homeschooled me and my siblings which is why I never had any type of ''education''. I couldn't control where i was born.
I know I am extremely ignorant when it comes to this subject, and because i have literally NOBODY to talk to, i thought who else seek advice from, then women who are expecting, or trying to conceive.
In a way I sort of feel more reassured, by you guys thinking I'm joking, because it makes me realise maybe I am just being paranoid.
To the people who have reassured me, thank you so much. I really really appreciate it. x
Good luck op it can be alot of fun but also can be amazing when it's with someone you really love.
Doctors are NOT allowed to gossip so don't be scared to go in and visit.
Remember babies aren't the only gift for life s3x brings, transmitted diseases are also very common, and you don't have to sleep around to get them. Two friends of mine are an example of this, one literally slept with 100+ guys often unprotected not one disease, another slept with only 2 guys ( had been bf at the time) and ended up with herpes.
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