I find the whole hoopla surrounding AP a little bit silly. Only you know how you parent, nobody else and others commenting of whether you are AP is redundant. In a thread a while back people were saying that AP is not mainstream well I think that for the most part it is. Baby wearing, co-sleeping aside the majority of parents would parent in a responsive manner and listen to babies cues regardless of whether they do the obvious AP things. I think Sears coined a phrase which encompasses what most parents do instinctively. I think others have over complicated what is essentially being responsive to your babies needs.
I do whatever works for me on any given day