I just found out last week I am UTD. this came as a shock as my parter (of only a few months) and I have only DTD once this month, 10 days before AF was due!!
Anyway he's not taking it too well. He suffers from pretty bad anxiety and depression and doesn't know if he wants this.
I have two other children from a previous relationship and had been a single mother since my 2yr old was conceived!! So 3 years now!
I have always been against the idea of termination, especially after two miscarriages in 2004. So I really can't bring myself to consider it let alone actually go and see if I could actually go through with it (which if I did I would insist my parter came with me!!)
On the other hand... 3 kids by myself if he doesn't come around. It's going to be tough. And I don't have a lot of family support as it is. Let alone once I announce "whoops I did it again!"
Any ideas or words of wisdom? We've only known a few days so I'm happy to allow him at least the next 6 months to come around. But then risk that he doesn't!? He does want kids and we've spoken about it - in an excited way - but since then he's had a bad turn anxiety wise. And now it's just too hard for him.